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第一篇:《做最真实的自己》
做最真实的自己
时间是指缝中的细沙，无论你怎么努力让五指靠拢都挡不住它优雅的挥舞曼妙的身躯。你能做的唯有做最真实的自己，让有限的时间发回它无限的价值。请记住只要自己不后悔，什么都是值得的。
不知不觉离开学校快一年的时间了，回望这一年的点点滴滴才发现身边发生了很大的变化。仍记得离校前的欢声笑语，离校后的东奔西走。我们曾一起商议报哪个地区的考试，曾一起相约在某个地方互相等待，为了考试一起找房子，风里来雨里去。我们走着同样的路有着同样的忧虑同样的叹息而如今却有着不同的结局。有的人已为人妻，有的人成了她夫。在大家的惊叹和祝福声中脱离了单身的群体，走进了我们迷茫向往担忧又让大家觉得安定的生活中。我们称它为婚姻。对于婚姻我们不敢马虎也马虎不得。于是，我常常感叹时间的脚步太匆忙，让我追的无法喘息。却未曾发现是我的脚步太慢，这个年纪的我们有些事就是这样顺其自然的发生了。像花儿到了花季自然芳香满径，无需惊叹。曾经我对结婚是这样理解的： 和喜欢的人在一起，结婚是件令人神往的事。 和一个不确定心意的人在一起，结婚是件忧虑的事。 和一个不爱的人在一起，结婚是件恐惧的事。
不是每个人结婚的对象都能让大家满意，让自己满意。只是在这个季节，这条路上，一阵微风吹过，你伸出手恰巧这片叶子落在了你的手中。也许它不是最好的，但是确是这个时候最适合你的。于是很多人便向生活妥协了，因为在人的世界里这是这个年纪该做的事。像春天是花开的季节，秋天是收获的季节。于是 我们也学着顺应自然，违背心意。
一直以来我还以为我是个孩子，每当爸爸妈妈我们三个在一起吃饭，看电视，聊天时我就想当然的把自己当成了孩子。妈妈唠叨时，我还是像十六七岁时一样和她顶嘴。要不就是默不作声的听我的歌吃我的饭。有时候发神经了会帮忙做很多家务活。当身体里的小懒人作祟的时候，我又开始把自己当成孩子。早晨睡到吃早饭，随便吃几口饭就跑了。时间来不及的时候吃几口把饭全剩在那然后一溜烟的骑着我的小宝马跑了。任凭我妈在后面唠叨，声音越来越小。因为我觉得我是个孩子。放学回来饿的胃疼就把我准备的各种好吃的拿出来，一边上网一边吃，直到胃不在那么难受。因为我觉得我是个孩子。我承认我不会照顾自己，自从上班之后经常感冒咳嗽，嗓子哑。常常咳的半夜都睡不着觉还要妈妈提醒我买药。因为我觉得我还是个孩子。但是当我来到学校，以一个教师的身份面对我那群可爱又可恨的孩子们的时候，我知道我已不是孩子。从我离开学校的那天起我们再也孩子不起来了。从我十几岁开始当我发现我的心智无法适应这个社会起，我就开始逼着自己成熟，逼着自己独自面对。因为我知道在别人眼里你就是一个结果。没有人会认为你是因为年纪小，没有经验，或是因为遇到点小困难而做不好，因为你就是一个结果。就像一个编程只要最终生成了对的结果就是成功。过程只是你证明自己的一个方式。所以当别人否定我，把我和那些原本就比我优秀的人比较时，我都会默默接受。因为解释就是借口。事实我就是不如他们好。所以那段和别人比较的日子里，我成了一个想反抗却无力挣扎的哑巴。我接受得原因是我知道这一切让我痛苦地的源头是出自对我 的爱。所以我会尽我所能减少这种爱带给我的压力，因为我不够好。 我之所以有时还那么孩子气，是因为我知道我孩子不了多久了。因为时间在逼着我长大，逼着我以一个大人的身份面对这个世界。这个世界已经不允许我犯错，因为我是一个大人了。是孩子们的榜样，幼稚只能在心里幼稚，疯只能躲着知道我身份的人疯。否则怎么为人师表，怎么身正为范。
现在的我每天过着学校家里两点一线的生活，在别人眼里生活安逸自在。但是还是有那么些 的紧张忙碌。当我看到那些追梦的孩子，怀着满腔热血对未来的神秘充满斗志的时候。我突
然想起曾经我也是个有梦的孩子，只是现在梦很近，我却看不清。不知道我的未来在哪里。我只是觉得我自由的时间不多了。过了一天就少一天，一秒一秒像沙漏里的细沙周而复始永不停息。
只是觉得自己还不够好，可以说不好。会的东西太少，太少。仿佛要被这个世界淘汰了一般。真的很想给自己做个系统，最新版的，这样面对未来我就不那么怕了。不过这也只是随口说说罢了，若真要实现还是要靠自己一点一点的努力。虽然自己缺点挺多的，但是我觉得友情也好爱情也罢，如果一个人容忍不了你最差的时候，那么他也不配拥有你最好的时候。缺点也是我所必须的，一个人如果想要和你长远的待在一起首先要通过你的缺点，因此缺点成了我们自我防护的保护伞。是我们辨别别人虚情假意的一个小工具。有缺点说明还有升值空间，人才有前进的斗志。所以做自己的同时请把自己变的更优秀点，不要有太多的缺点。让别人因认识你为荣。
人生很短，想要的东西就要努力争取，趁花开正好，趁微风不噪，趁繁花还未开至荼蘼 ，趁还年轻，请勇敢的去追逐吧。
我们一起努力，相约幸福路上，好吗？
第二篇:《做最好最真实的自己》
做最好最真实的自己
Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside–on the inside. It's not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. It's about reality. Who you really are。
真正快乐成功的人会长成最好最真实的自己——从内心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名誉或者外表形象，而是真实的自我。
Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, it's very hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it out。
道理很简单，讲出来也很容易。但问题是，做起来就不简单了：这需要付诸很多努力，甚或一辈子才能实现。
Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work, it's going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And you're going to have to break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap out of you。
需要穷尽毕生精力的事情必定不容易。成大事者必先苦其心志。因此，你必须走出舒适区，去经历、去体验那些会让你害怕的机会。
But you know, I can't think of a better way to spend your life. I mean, what's life for if not finding yourself and trying to become the best, most genuine version of you that you can be?
况且，人这一辈子，若到头来都认不清自己、未能长成最好最真实的自己，还有什么意义呢？
That's what Steve Jobs meant when he said this at a Stanford University commencement speech:
正如史蒂夫-乔布斯在斯坦福大学的毕业典礼上所言：
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice。
时间宝贵，不要虚掷光阴过着他人的生活。不要让周遭的聒噪言论蒙蔽你内心的声音。
You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something–your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has
never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life。{最最真实的自己}.
你要相信，生活中的偶然冥冥中也能指引未来。你要心怀信念——相信你的直觉、命运、生活抑或因缘。这个方法一直给我力量，促使我过得卓然不同。 The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle。
成大事的唯一途径就是做自己喜欢的事情。若你还没找到，那就继续追寻吧，不要停下来。
Now, let's for a moment be realistic about this. Insightful as that advice may be, it sounds a little too amorphous and challenging to resonate with today's quick-fix culture. These days, if you can't tell people exactly what to do and how to do it, it falls on deaf ears。
现在我们来实际一点：建议或许很深刻，但听完却让人无从着手，难以运用到当今的快节奏文化中。现如今，如果一个建议讲不清具体做什么、该怎么做的话，那么说了也等于白说。
Not only that, but what Jobs was talking about, what I'm talking about, requires focus and discipline, two things that are very hard to come by these days. Why? Because, focus and discipline are hard. It's so much easier to give in to distraction and instant gratification. Easy and addictive。
不仅如此，乔布斯的讲话和我要说的话都需要集中和自制——这两个品质在当今社会非常难能可贵。何以见得？因为集中和自制都不容易做到。人们很容易分散注意力、寻求即时快感——舒服且容易上瘾。
To give you a little incentive to take on the challenge, to embark on the road to self-discovery, here are three huge benefits from working to become the best, most genuine version of yourself。
为激励你迎接挑战、踏上寻求自我的旅途，我列出了成为最好最真实自己后的三大益处：
It will make you happy. Getting to know yourself will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. It will reduce your stress and anxiety. It will make you a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend. It will make you a better person.
Those are all pretty good reasons, if you ask me。
你会感到快乐。了解自己后会让你更愉悦地接受自己，减轻你的压力和焦虑，使你成为更好的伴侣、父母、朋友，让你成为一个更美好的人。这些益处难道不够说服你为之努力吗？
Besides, you really won't achieve anything significant in life until you know the real you. Not your brand, your LinkedIn profile, how you come across, or what anyone thinks of you. The genuine you. There's one simple reason why you shouldn't try to be something you're not, and it's that you can't. The real you will come out anyway. So forget your personal brand and start spending time on figuring out who you really are and trying to become the best version of that you can be。
而且，只有了解真实的自己方能成就大事。你需要了解那个真实的你，而不是你的品牌、名誉、LinkedlIn资料、你的过去抑或他人对你的看法。为什么你不应该过他人的生活？很简单，因为首先你不是“其他人”，你的本性总有一天会现形。所以，请放开你的品牌形象，努力发掘真实自我、努力把自己经营成最好的自己吧。
第三篇:《做最好最真实的自己》
做最好最真实的自己 2013-06-24 10:21:25
Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside–on the inside. It's not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. It's about reality. Who you really are.
真正快乐成功的人会长成最好最真实的自己——从内心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名誉或者外表形象，而是真实的自我。
Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, it's very hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it out.
道理很简单，讲出来也很容易。但问题是，做起来就不简单了：这需要付诸很多努力，甚或一辈子才能实现。
Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work, it's going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And you're going to have to break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap out of you.
需要穷尽毕生精力的事情必定不容易。成大事者必先苦其心志。因此，你必须走出舒适区，去经历、去体验那些会让你害怕的机会。
But you know, I can't think of a better way to spend your life. I mean, what's life for if not finding yourself and trying to become the best, most genuine version of you that you can be?
况且，人这一辈子，若到头来都认不清自己、未能长成最好最真实的自己，还有什么意义呢?
That's what Steve Jobs meant when he said this at a Stanford University
commencement speech:
正如史蒂夫-乔布斯在斯坦福大学的毕业典礼上所言：
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice.
时间宝贵，不要虚掷光阴过着他人的生活。不要让周遭的聒噪言论蒙蔽你内心的声音。 You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something–your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
你要相信，生活中的偶然冥冥中也能指引未来。你要心怀信念——相信你的直觉、命运、生活抑或因缘。这个方法一直给我力量，促使我过得卓然不同。
The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle.
成大事的唯一途径就是做自己喜欢的事情。若你还没找到，那就继续追寻吧，不要停下来。
Now, let's for a moment be realistic about this. Insightful as that advice may be, it sounds a little too amorphous and challenging to resonate with today's quick-fix culture. These days, if you can't tell people exactly what to do and how to do it, it falls on deaf ears.
现在我们来实际一点：建议或许很深刻，但听完却让人无从着手，难以运用到当今的快节奏文化中。现如今，如果一个建议讲不清具体做什么、该怎么做的话，那么说了也等于白说。
Not only that, but what Jobs was talking about, what I'm talking about, requires focus and discipline, two things that are very hard to come by these days. Why? Because, focus and discipline are hard. It's so much easier to give in to distraction and instant gratification. Easy and addictive.
不仅如此，乔布斯的讲话和我要说的话都需要集中和自制——这两个品质在当今社会非常难能可贵。何以见得?因为集中和自制都不容易做到。人们很容易分散注意力、寻求即时快感——舒服且容易上瘾。
To give you a little incentive to take on the challenge, to embark on the road to self-discovery, here are three huge benefits from working to become the best, most genuine version of yourself.
为激励你迎接挑战、踏上寻求自我的旅途，我列出了成为最好最真实自己后的三大益处： It will make you happy. Getting to know yourself will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. It will reduce your stress and anxiety. It will make you a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend. It will make you a better person. Those are all pretty good reasons, if you ask me.
你会感到快乐。了解自己后会让你更愉悦地接受自己，减轻你的压力和焦虑，使你成为更好的伴侣、父母、朋友，让你成为一个更美好的人。这些益处难道不够说服你为之努力吗? Besides, you really won't achieve anything significant in life until you know the real you. Not your brand, your LinkedIn profile, how you come across, or what anyone thinks of you. The genuine you. There's one simple reason why you shouldn't try to be something you're not, and it's that you can't. The real you will come out anyway. So forget your personal brand and start spending time on figuring out who you really are and trying to become the best version of that you can be.
而且，只有了解真实的自己方能成就大事。你需要了解那个真实的你，而不是你的品牌、名誉、LinkedlIn资料、你的过去抑或他人对你的看法。为什么你不应该过他人的生活?很简单，因为首先你不是“其他人”，你的本性总有一天会现形。所以，请放开你的品牌形象，努力发掘真实自我、努力把自己经营成最好的自己吧。
You pay a huge price when you engage in mindless distraction. The only people that really care about you are your loved ones, your friends and family. Everyone else is too busy living his own little mini drama. To put it bluntly, your network couldn't care less about you.
盲目分心的代价很大。真正在乎你的只有你所爱的人、你的亲人和朋友。而其他人都只围着自己的小日子转罢了。说穿了，社交关系中的人并不可靠。
That's why engaging yourself and others in mindless distraction isn't worth your time or theirs. More important, it will absolutely keep you from focusing on accomplishing whatever great things you might manage to achieve in life if you set your mind to it.
所以，浪费时间盲目分心应付自己或他人都没有意义。更严重的是，当你决心着手生活中的大计划时，分心会有碍你集中完成目标。
There's a business concept called opportunity cost. When you choose one course of action, you miss out on all the other opportunities you might have chosen to pursue but didn't. People rarely stop to consider that until it's too late.
有一个商业术语叫“机会成本”。当你选定某个行为时，你也会错过其他原本可以选择的机会。很少有人能意识到这一点，就算意识到也为时已晚。
It's the most exciting journey you will ever embark on. We're all enthralled by adventure. We love to read and watch movies about other people's journeys, real or imagined. The Hobbit. Raiders of the Lost Ark. Into Thin Air.
这将是一段前所未有的有趣旅程。我们都乐于于冒险，热爱阅读和观看有关他人或真实或虚构的旅程电影，例如，《霍比特人》、《夺宝奇兵》或《走进空气稀薄地带》。
We love to take vacations, to travel to all sorts of places. And when we do, we revel in the natural beauty of Kauai's Na Pali Coast, the Grand Canyon, the Alps. We marvel at the great works of others: the art, the architecture, the Pyramids, Stonehenge.
我们热爱假期，喜欢到各地旅行。我们会惊叹于考艾岛上纳波利海岸的自然风光，迷上美国大峡谷、阿尔卑斯山。我们也会惊叹于他人的杰作：艺术、建筑、金字塔、巨石阵等等。 And yet, the opportunity for adventure is right there in front of each and every one of us. Until you take it, you'll never know what you might achieve. What marvels you might create. What you might discover. All you have to do is start the journey.
而且，冒险之门向每个人敞开。打开这扇门之前，谁也不知道能获得哪些收获，会创造哪些奇迹，又将有什么新的发现……你所要做的，仅仅是启程。
第四篇:《做最真实的自己》
做最真实的自己
‘幸福’是什么？有时我曾这样问过我自己，每天都是一个模子，读书，学习，到初中了，感觉枯燥乏味，玩的时间少了，和小学比真是天壤之别呀""作业如一座山压在我的肩上，感觉沉重无比，每次都在追寻，‘幸福’这词的含义，难道幸福是每天学习吗？学得自己都喘不过气来，还是那一次又一次的考试""似乎这些都不是答案。
每天背着沉重的书包，里面是厚厚的书，我真想在这里面找出‘幸福’的含义，可惜，我翻遍了所有的书，始终都没找到，看来，幸福真的是与我无缘呢。每天背单词，做作业，看书，准备考试，时间的流逝，让我淡忘了做最真实的自己，那个傻傻的寻找着幸福的小女孩，我变了，变成了每天逃避，每天伪装的人，似乎以前那个自己从未出现过""
但，一个记忆的碎片复苏了我以前的记忆，那时，我看了一个女孩在仰望着天空，那眼神是多么的深远，在这时，似乎已经死亡的记忆竟一下苏醒过来，以前的自己，也曾像这个小女孩一样有看似深远的眼神，也时不时地仰望天空，那时还在想：幸福是像小鸟一样在天空翱翔吗？好想去试试""以前的自己，绝不会逃避，绝不会伪装，心里的事全写在脸上，而现在""不知不觉，眼眶里已经闪烁着泪花""
“呜呜呜，原来这么多年我一直在伪装”
从那以后，我依旧是那个不会逃避的女孩，只不过有一个不同，那就是我找到了幸福""
幸福其实很简单，用心就能感觉到，幸福就是做最真实的自己"" 重庆兼善中学初2012级初一：牟永欣
第五篇:《做最好的最真实的自己》
做最好最真实的自己
Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside–on the inside. It's not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. It's about reality. Who you really are.
真正快乐成功的人会长成最好最真实的自己——从内心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名誉或者外表形象，而是真实的自我。
Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, it's very hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it out.{最最真实的自己}.
道理很简单，讲出来也很容易。但问题是，做起来就不简单了：这需要付诸很多努力，甚或一辈子才能实现。
Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work, it's going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And you're going to have to break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap out of you.
需要穷尽毕生精力的事情必定不